I was preparing for the big afternoon presentation at lunchtime when dyaa's teacher called and told me her temperature running high and she's in sick bay.
I wasn't surprise of the call cause I could feel her body warm the night before and didn't wanna sleep if I put her down so I had to carry her while sleeping. (Oh but in her case I could steal some sleep. Emir got sick once and he cried most of the night I had to carry him throughout. I didn't know what else to do so I cried. Then farid took the shift with him constructing pillows around him and somehow could sit and put emir to sleep).
But today is the day I had my presentation! Gosh isn't this when is like a test to those questions Work or family?
I decided to go see dyaa. I grabbed a puff and my phone and keys quickly. When i came she was crying. Her eyes all puffy and red means she's been crying a while. So i nursed her straightaway and she calmed down. Her body was 37.8c. Made some calls decided to send her home. I had 3 hours left before my presentation. Thank God for long Friday lunchtime.
She was fine and sleeping in the car. Left emir at school cause I don't think at that point of time can care for two kids simultaneously when one is sick. Then went home. Gave her panadol and stuck some cool patch on her forehead. Nursed her. That took an hour half and her body cooled down.
Ha I still had time for zohor and milo. Left her with my maid asleep and went to work. Knew if she was worse I would skip the presentation and made other arrangements. Resented the fact I decided to go even though I reassured myself everything was okay for me to go.
Bla bla bla. Couldn't wait to go back but timely updates from the maid said her body is better. When back home she started to be all smiley. So we decided to grab food cause nobody (wanted to) cook so went just shop across my house and dinner took one hour (emir main playground dalam restaurant).
Got home this time she was wailing and feverish again. Oh no. Took her and instantly she was quiet. So did the same routine I did. Meds. Nursed. Put her to sleep. 5 mind after she woke up I decided to give to her yan cause I really needed a shower before everyone go to bed and I dare not wake them up with any water swishing sound.
When I'm done heard dyaa cried again. Her body not warm. Quiet down instantly when I took her. Her yan said "oooooo nak mama je ye"..
Then I figured. Maybe babies get sick and cry so their MOMS can pay close attention to them? And soothe them. Even when tak mandi or present to management or watching TV at home. God works that way so no matter what we do as moms, He gave us the miracles to kiss their bubu and make them feel better.
That explains why I got a lot better when I called my mama didn't even tell her I was upset or no mood (refer to previous post). She didn't have to do anything. Just being there made me feel better.
Yes. Moms are the only one that can kiss our bubus and make our world be better.
Dads just kiss mama's bubus to make her feel better is how you can contribute. I said bubus okay not boobies. Hahaha
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